This is not an ideal place to be in life I know

This is not an ideal place to be in life I know. Wanting to know how to get your ex back, you must be feeling very much alone and confused. Not understand exactly where you went wrong in the relationship. Remember, everyone has gone through this before and while it may not be of much comfort to you now, these people did survive it. Everyone does.
Fortunately- there is some good news though. You certainly can get your ex back. In the course of this article, i'll show you some things that can help you to work wonders towards getting your ex back.
First off, here are a few things not to do....
* Do not call them or message them constantly
* Do not stalk them
* Don't stay home and be sad and cry
* Do not try to go and pick up someone at a bar
* Don't get depressed
Here are some things that you should be doing....
* Go out for an evening with some of your friends
* Get yourself into better shape
* Give your ex space to be alone
* Get out and get some sun and read a book
* Do go out and make some friends and meet new people
The one big thing that will push your ex even farther away from you is clingyness. Give your ex some room to breathe. If they don't want to hear from you, don't call them! Leave them alone. This is something I used often- and I love this saying. Give them the best gift of all...
Give them the gift of missing you!
Powerful stuff isnt it? When someone cannot have something, they want it more. It's simply the law of attraction. Also, if that someone see's that person being enjoyed by another, that also makes them want that person more and this is where not being available, not sitting by the phone and going out makes a big difference.
I know you don't 'feel' like going out. But, do it! It's one of the best ways to get your ex back- I promise. Who knows- perhaps you might even find someone else while you are out who is even MORE what you wanted in life.
Noting can turn a person off on this planet more than someone who's desperate. No one wants to be with anyone who is desperate to be with them. It isn't romantic, but it IS scary!
Stay positive and positive things will happen in your life.